Friends & dating has been a constant theme for me for the last 7 months. I often feel like “friends'' and “dating” in the same s

Hey y'all! Last time we talked I discussed my plans to take myself on dates all summer long. I am two weeks late with this update so, sue me! For my first two dates I had a blast. The first date, I ended up making a reservation at Lake Chalet, Oakland. I actually ended up adding my sorority sister about 45 min before. My Soror recommended the fish and chips dish because the last time we came to Lake Chalet for our AKAversary she loved it. I shouldn’t have listened to her. Off

I’d love to be asked out on a nice date every so often, what woman wouldn’t? I often find myself frustrated with the desire to want to go out with a man, simply because I don’t have a man to go out with lol. If there were no men barking up my tree or showing interest, I probably wouldn’t be as frustrated. That sounds like it doesn’t add up, but let me explain. Basically there are men who text and call but the most I get is a “wyd?”, or they beat around the bush about coming o

My Perfect Man... Whatever it was I started writing, I deleted. There is no perfect man. I don’t even know if there is a perfect woman, I seriously doubt it. Lately I’ve been frustrated with my dating life, but honestly, when am I not? There is literally not one man on the planet I am into and it is the worst feeling in the world. I feel nothing, all the time. Not a butterfly, not a nervousness, not a thing. I remember when I met my first love. Until the last day of knowing h